Learning when not to give in to BD.

2021.10.16 05:48 throwRA73746 Learning when not to give in to BD.

My SO and I have started fighting a lot lately over SD9, his mother, and ex. We are getting married soon and we just moved in together.
When we got together, we agreed to co-parent but he would discipline ( my choice). Since moving in I have paid for all of SD’s room furnishings, clothing, and food. I’ve spent around $500 this first month. BD is paying child support and only gets SD every other weekend.
Fight 1: BD was previously living with ML. This is our first month living together. BD and ML both want SD to spend Friday night and most of Saturday with ML. I have argued that this is a critical time for SD and I to build a routine and get used to living together. So I offered that this first month she can visit with grandma on Saturday for 5 hours and spends the rest of the weekend with me and then once a month she can spend a night with grandma. BD refuses to budge.
Fight 2: Grandma doesn’t want us to keep any of the clothes she bought for SD. After spending the night, any clothes that SD is wearing when we pick her up from grandma’s, we have to return to her. BD is giving into grandma. I suggested that SD shouldn’t spend the night in that case but grandma can have SD all Saturday. BD is also taking SD to school and BM is also playing a clothes game. I lose any clothing I send SD to school in. BM gives SD to us in tanks, short, and flip flops only. It’s been like this for years. Again, BD refuses to budge and I’m losing clothes for SD.
Fight 3: Grandma just got home today from having major back surgery yesterday and wanted SD to spend night. ( Btw her bandages are still bleeding.) I refused. Grandma needs to recover and her aunt and uncle need to focus on caring for grandma and not split that attention to SD9. I’m fine with SD visiting but not spending the night. Again BD refused and SD is spending the night.
I finally told BD that if he is the only one that is allowed to make these calls then he can also be the sole provider and I will sit down and keep my mouth shut since I have no choice in the matter. He apologized and said he was wrong and he doesn’t want that. This has all happened in two weeks.
Here are my questions. Am I wrong or unreasonable? Should I give up and not share my opinions or should I stay firm? What do ya’ll do in similar situations?
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I’m heavily allergic to dust and am currently going through peak dust season in my country. I tend to sneeze a lot and eat way too much (especially sweets). I’ve tried wearing masks, using nasal drops, and antihistamines to stop the allergies but at the end of the day it’s inevitable. Any advice on how to cope?
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2021.10.16 05:48 GroovyMeech Clock_Watchdog_Timeout

So I’m having issues with a watchdog timeout when I try to run Warzone or rocket league. Every other game works fine not sure why it is just these two games. However, if I manage to get into a game of Warzone my cpu shoot’s up in temperature to the high 90’s before I get into a game (obviously I need a new cpu cooler). Is that what causes a watchdog timeout? I haven’t been able to find a clear answer on what is causing this.
I have updated all my drivers and bios and reset my setting in the bios multiple times but nothing seems to work.
MSI MPG Z490 Gaming Edge Wi-Fi I9-1100 Unlocked Geoforce GTX 1660 Super Corsair Vengeance RGB PRO 8gb x 4
CPU Cooler: Noctua NH-U12S
Please help!
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2021.10.16 05:48 demonsutun H: QE15r Fixer, Qffr15r Railway & more W: Apparels and/or Other Offers

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Have other weapons like:

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Note: Currently outside so will reply when I can.
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2021.10.16 05:48 YogurtclosetOk5361 I don't know how to cope with this really

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2021.10.16 05:48 crustpunkbitch Depressed about transition

I started transitioning last year in May at 27, and live alone. I didn’t realize how much time i would be spending alone even though I had already been isolated since March when lockdowns began.
I had lost access to the gym I went to, and slowly stopped doing as much physical activity from lack of a pool for swimming, no social life or walking around downtown with friends, and creeping depression. I would go on walks with my dog, though she passed recently.
As time went on being alone I would spend long stretches without seeing anyone else, on the scale of months between social visits. Now 19 months later of isolation, depression, lack of physical activity, and medically transitioning alone for 17 months I look horrible. Definitely the worst I have looked my whole life. Before Covid happened and before hrt I could pass when I got ready for a night out or put effort into my presentation. Now no matter what I get misgendered. My body looks really wack now, and I am so down on myself it’s hard to put the effort in to fix things.
I think transitioning alone in extreme isolation through a global pandemic was a terrible idea. I now have extreme social anxiety whereas before I had very little to none. I’m incredibly out of shape, my confidence is gone, and I’m pretty close to giving up.
My dog passing feels like the breaking point for me. I’m all alone, and started using drugs again just to get away from my own thoughts.
I was so excited for my life in transition, but I currently don’t see anything pleasant ahead. This was what I wanted since 15, and when I finally was stable enough in life to go for it this is how I ended up.
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